Black Femme Fatale

Not that you care or maybe some of you do or maybe its just out of pure nosieness but I’ll let you into what’s been going on in my life.

• The Manicane is dead due to the fact that I now have a boyfriend. He is great. He’s everything so far that I listed that I wanted in order to actually commit to a relationship. He gets me. He laughs at my jokes and everything is easy with us. (In my opinion.. his opinion may differ.. lol)

• I’m still looking for a new job but in the meantime I have been promoted. Its not as great and glamorous as it may seem. I have duties from the old job, plus new ones for the low low price of a 6% raise. But at least I have a job right?

• I thought about renting out my condo and moving someplace else that was cheaper but I just found out that renting it out wouldn’t save me anything. I’d still have to pay a lil something on it for what I would rent it out for and I can’t just live anywhere so I’m staying put.

• FeFe and I we do less Ego Boost Tours. Not because I have a bf. I see my friends just as much as I did before even though he’s in my life. I don’t stop my life for a relationship. I incorporate them into my life. I think if most people did this they would have what I will call relationship/life balance… kinda like work/life balance. You need your space. They need there’s. They need their friends. You need yours. Although I enjoy every minute I spend with him.

• I’ve been super stressed at work. This guy got in my face last week literally less than a foot away and put his hand close to my face. It took every piece of me to control myself from not losing my diction, composure, and not cursing him out.

• Since coming off Daniel’s fast after lent. I have been a very bad girl. No discipline whatsoever. I really need to focus my energy on getting my mind together to focus on starting this again. Not only for health purposes but for spirituality and meditation.. I felt so good when I was on Daniel’s fast. I’m going to the beach this weekend so it will have to start afterwards. I am SO NOT BEACH READY.. but I need the downtime and I’m sure there will be plenty of none beach ready bodies out there.

• I’ll be 28 this year 6 months from Sunday

• I might abandon this blog and start a cooking blog. It will involve small parts of my life and travels but cooking and baking is where my heart is an where my future lies for business ventures I’d like to persue. Stay Tuned.

There’s the update folks. Anything you want to know? Any questions for me? Just wanna say Hi? Lol

Love,

Jolie