So uh yeah with those kind of stats I guess I should have an update of what has been going on in my little life.
Well the sober and vegan thing has curbed the dating. I do not want to be one of those girls who ask:
What kind of oil was that cooked with?
Can I have the sauce on the side?
Do you have any substitutions?
Is there meat present near the vegetables?
I guess because in all reality outside of Daniel’s Fast I am a meat and potatoes kind of girl. The bigger the steak the better and please load my potato down! (just thinking about it makes my mouth water)
So anyway, I’ve been dodging (well not dodging.. if a man I was interested in asked me out.. I would explain the situation of the temp vegan and sober state I’m in and go out with him) dates and since The Comeback Girl has made me feel guilty for entertaining on my couch or there’s I just sit on my couch alone or go out with the girls.
What else has been going on.. lets see.
OH.. I joined a second gym. I belong to Bally’s and Gold’s now. This is the push I need.
The guy from the other night the Que from HU well he called and tried to act like a huge d*ck. All FeFe could say was, “at least you didn’t sleep with him.” True but I said to myself, “wasn’t this nagga just counting days a couple days ago.” Anywho.
So since my life is rather dull. I’ll talk about others.
So a lot well most of my friends are in these hella dysfunctional relationships and you know why!?
They were all based purely off of s2x to begin with and they truly don’t know who the fugg they are with.. no seriously. So I’ve never been high and mighty about sex and how long before I do the do. I think when it’s right and the time you know. BUT I have to say that all my functional and great relationships were based off of friendship first. I think that’s the problem today with dating. Everyone is interviewing! Stop interviewing and get to know people. Just because you go out to dinner and have a few drinks does not mean there has to be something that comes out of it. What if you just find a really good friend out of it? I mean that’s possible right. Then later on that really good friend and you could develop some chemistry just maybe that develops in to a long lasting romantical relationship and then marriage! (hahahaha.. I live in a dream world but it’s possible!)
So they sit in these relationships where they fight almost everyday 90 days into it or move in with each other because of the economy after 7 mths of dating and they fight and fight and argue. It just does not make good sense.
So on my days that I am thinking .. “damn .. why am I still single” The answer is clear that I just haven’t found the man who can be my friend first……. I swear relationships based off friendship makes everything 10 times as passionate as it would be with a complete stranger. GO FIGURE!
BUT I have to be honest .. I do miss some good D! (mumbles to self.. prayer and fasting.. prayer and fasting)
So how have you all been!?
