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Let’s start with the major DONT’S of dating. In no particular order. (these are solely my thoughts and not copy pasted from some chain. I am brilliant on my own!)
1. Don’t ever ask a woman “is there a vibe between us?”
- If there was one, you wouldn’t have to ask!
2. Don’t ever ask a woman “can I kiss you?”
- If there is a “vibe” then it’s inevitable that she wouldn’t mind a kiss! Women like feeling like they are with a man- not a third grader. Take charge and go for what you want.
3. Don’t ever have your “old girlfriend” call your “new girlfriend” and try to front her on some “how do you know my man” shit!
- Its just plain immature. She will most definitely get her feelings hurt. The new girl has no reason to lie or hold back the truth!
4. Don’t ever front like you have money and don’t!
- We will definitely be able to tell. Additionally, please note that not all women solely care about money alone. We have our own and want you to have your own too.
5. Don’t ever act like you feel uncomfortable when walking with a Caucasian or a woman of another race not your own when I a beautiful black woman walk by.
- if you want to have jungle fever fine! Don’t be ashamed. And if you are ashamed, then come on back to the black.
6. Don’t ever hover over a girl in the club after you buy her a drink!
- If your game is tight, she’ll let you know by sticking around. A $12 drink is not a means to wife her for the night.
7. Don’t ever think that just because I look oh so right on our first date, and there is some chemistry, that you’re going to get some butt!
- 99% chance its not happening. sorry. And if if does, it has NOTHING to do with you. It’s our decison and most times we’ve already got out mind made up. See next blog “Got My Mind Made Up” for more information.
8. don’t ever repeatedly diss ya girl for ya boys!
- are you f&^king them? She will def think that you’re gay if she gets dissed to many times because you would rather spend it with your boys. We need attention too!
9. Don’t ever be intimidated by a beautiful young black woman who has her stuff together. Just because she has my own car, own house and pays her own bills does not mean she would not appreciate a man, take care of a man and be what a woman should be. She’s still very down to earth. She just wants you to have your own shit too!
10. Don’t ever and this is the most important, brag about what you can do to a woman. How you can slang it like this and like that! She will be thoroughly upset when the exact opposite is really what’s going down. Besides, can you really be the judge of your own performance?! That rating should be left up to her!!
ps. i have some recent additions to this list that will be coming soon…. “15 rules for men.” the added rules, or maybe it should be a new blog will have conditions for different types of men…. the “baby please baby please,” the “I just cant commit,” the “even though I just met you, I know that I want to be with you,” the “i need a trophy on my arm” and more!
Can you tell that I am currently socially apathetic?! Till next time America!
Jolie Fatale
